One of the most frequent questions we get asked is “what is the life of an escort really like?” It seems that many have pre-conceived ideas of what the life of a sex worker is, or should be. Often, punters and interested young women are surprised to learn how normal the escort world actually is. To break it down, we have compiled a ‘Day in the Life’ from one of our most popular girls.
Starting the day when I want to.
I wake up at around 10 am, which probably seems quite late for most people who work 9-5 jobs but I have never been a morning person. I pop on my dressing gown, make myself breakfast and sit down in front of the television with a cup of tea. I used to work in an office which meant I would start my day at 6, not eat breakfast and get stuck in traffic for the first hour of my day. Being self-employed suits me a lot more because my day starts when I want it to now.
After showering and getting dressed, I’ll walk the dog and get some bits and bobs from the shop.
I will normally start getting calls and texts through at around 1 pm. Depending on how busy my schedule is, I can normally see 3-4 punters a day, I’ll have a few regulars who will request a visit on a certain day every week so they always take priority. When meeting new people, I always require a phone call conversation before we actually meet. This is beneficial to both of us as I do not want someone to visit me with expectations of doing something I do not want to do. It also means they know exactly what is expected of them.
The Type of Men I meet.
It really is a varied pull. The stereotypical perception is that it is all CEO’s who pay for escorts to meet them in fancy hotel rooms and cheat on their old wife. The reality is that we meet men from all walks of life; including students, older men, fathers, sons and everything in between. The role of an escort is not to sexually satisfy someone but to fill a void in their life which they’re not currently satisfied with. A lot of the older gentlemen that I meet are in unhappy marriages that are normally sexless. This means that they have grown to feel unattractive and have lost their spark. My role is to reignite that spark that they once had and help them regain a bit of intimacy. Contrasting that, I also see younger clients who are a lot less experienced than the older gentlemen. Their reasoning is normally down to the lack of experience that they currently have with women and would like a stress free environment with a woman who has no reason to judge them.
Do I enjoy what I do?
I love my job. When I left university, I had no idea what I wanted to go into. I had tried my hand at modelling but never made enough money to support myself independently. I make more in a month now than I would in 6 at my previous job. I work my own hours, at the comfort of my own home and get to meet some amazing people along the way. Obviously, there are challenges and you do occasionally come across people who are not very polite but that is the case with every job. Could you honestly say you get along with every single co-worker in your office?
I would never consider any other job after working as an escort, I love what I do. I would recommend it to any women who want to find a career that is flexible around them. It’s not for everyone but if you love meeting new people and being in control of your own body, I believe there is no better industry.